Have you ever been in a conversation with someone and you really feel that they are not listening? We all know the tell tale signs that effective communication is not happening when the listener:

• Uses those abrupt one-word answers such as no, yes, and maybe.
• Avoids direct eye contact during an in person meeting.
• Fumbles with papers or types on their keyboard while you are talking on the phone.
• Constantly interrupts you.
• Finishes your sentences.
• Changes the subject without even realizing it.

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